Frequently asked questions.
Who can answer my questions concerning my child or about how the school operates?
Check these Questions and Answers! You can also submit new questions.
The best source of information is Shri Mataji Herself and introspection. If your question/concern is of a general nature, see if you can find a solution listening to Shri Mataji’s talks or reading excerpts in the About Raising Children section. You can also introspect in meditation, or use sahaj techniques such as shoe beating, paper burning, etc.
You may know other parents whose children went to the Canajoharie school and may have experienced a similar situation or have had similar questions to yours. The experience of brothers and sisters is a valuable source of wisdom and knowledge and might provide the support and answers you are looking for.
If these options do not meet your needs, you can contact us via email.
Communication with my child during the term
After the settling period of three weeks, children play most of the day happily and don’t usually dwell on thoughts, “where are my parents, when will I get a phone call?” When the time comes, they are very happy and excited to talk to their parents; however, some of them might not be used to speaking with parents on the phone, might be shy, or might not know what to say. It is good to have prepared some questions that you will ask to make it easier for your child to speak (what did you do at school, what did you have for breakfast, what are your friends’ names, what was your favorite thing last week, or talk about exciting things that you experienced together etc.)
Sometimes your child may cry during the phone call. Usually, after the phone call ends, they run off to play with friends, and all their tears are gone because they live in the present moment.
Other times, a child is not ready to talk to parents at that moment and after a few minutes says bye and runs to play with his/her friends to the surprise of a parent, whose needs are not met yet. Again, children live in the present, and this is a healthy sign of your child being satisfied and happy in the environment that aunties, uncles, and his/her brothers and sisters help create.
While you want reassurance from your child during these calls, consider the calls from the child’s perspective and be prepared to accept their level of engagement during the call as a witness and loving support.
What to answer my child when they ask: when will you pick me up?
Keep the answer very general. Here are some ideas: -not yet; -in a few weeks; -keep learning and the time will go fast; -soon
Where should I put my attention?
How much does my attention influence my child during the term at CJ School?
Is my child missing me while in the CJ School?
When can I call to talk to my child?
Phone calls are permitted beginning the third weekend after the start of school. It applies to returning students as well as first-time students, regardless of the child’s age.
The time of the day is specified every weekend, since children’s activities vary from weekend to weekend.
Generally, it is better NOT to call in the evenings, since children are tired and tend to be more emotional.
How many times per weekend can I call?
Every child can receive one call per weekend.
What if I don’t have a chance to call on the weekend?
You may call on Monday.
How many letters can I send during the term?
You are welcome to send as many as you wish. Usually, we read letters once a week. Letters are very popular among the children; they love to hear from their parents and also listen to reading letters together.
Can I send a package?
Yes….
Are video calls allowed?
No, video calls are not allowed.
Children’s hygiene
Do you clean children after going to the bathroom?
How often do you wash children’s heads?
What are your expectations from Sahaj School?